Dear Ladies, Read tips on how to avoid unwanted male attention

I want to change some ladies mindset today. Not all the men on the street wants to have sex with you. I’m going to be real and down to earth with this write up. The way some ladies complain men are always asking them for sex really baffles me.

Why sex, why not marriage proposal? Why do men always want to sleep with you? Why is it that every single guy who asks you out is always hitting you for sex? Why won’t they marry you unless they have a taste of the forbidden fruit? This is a big problem, It is not something to be proud of, if all that men see about you is your body and nothing more then you need to get worried.

Luckily enough, we will give you pointers, maybe it’s something you are doing wrong? Just continue reading:


A female’s body means nothing to her. You are used to seeing your breasts and every soft body part all your life. It doesn’t mean a thing to you but to guys it means the universe! Men are moved by sight. Wearing armless can turn a man on much less a low neckline exposing the cleavage of your breasts.

You wear trousers, tights skirt or panty hose which shows the shape of your buttock. Mini and micro mini skirts exposing your thigh can all make a man go wild. Better face reality now and mind the way you dress. Don’t forget that it is only God that sees your heart but men sees the body, be advised.


Some ladies don’t know how to sit especially the skirt wearing sisters. You sit in front of a guy and open your laps carelessly, what do you want him to see? A trance or maybe revelation? Always close your thigh whenever you are sitting, it doesn’t matter who is before you too. Not sitting very well can become a habit and follow you around. Yet you wonder why all the brothers in the church wants to sleep with you.


Ladies who touch, hug and wrap themselves around guys are sexual magnets to sexually immature guys. Why are you always hugging and pecking, for what? Can’t you talk without touching, holding and hugging someone? Some even sit on their ‘friend’s’ lap and say it doesn’t matter. He is just a brother in Christ.

He would soon be a lover in bed. Learn to control your emotions around the opposite sex. If you must hug, go look for your fellow lady to hug and peck and you still need to be careful. Lesbians are all over the place.


Some people just throw around the word “dear” as if it is a second language, Why would you give all the guys in your life pet names? You say, “thanks dear,” “okay sweetie”, “see you dearie”, “bye love”, yes sugar, Hello honeypie, etc., you are looking for serious trouble. Words like this turns a man on. Even if you must call, set a limit.


This shouldn’t be a problem at all but experience has taught me that men are attracted and eventually turned on by women who praise them. You can compliment men if you want to but be discreet and casual about it. Don’t over do anything. Telling a guy, “whao! what a nice moustache you’ve got!” or that “muscle on your arm can make any lady go crazy for you” is indirectly telling him you like his body and wouldn’t mind if he sleeps with you. Believe it or not!


Here, you deliberately wear provocative dresses with the intention to turn him on. You want to see whether you are sexually attractive to him and want to see how far he can respond to your seduction. You don’t need that test at all. Men are turned on by women whether you seduce him or not. A woman’s body is already built to turn a man on.


The way some ladies pose on Facebook, I wonder what they are really looking for. Do you want him to kiss you? Why turn your buttock to the camera? Do you want him to see how big it is? Why focus on your chest? Do you want him to know you have firm breasts? Or maybe you’ve got nipples like needle? What is the purpose of the purpose of the pictures you are posting? You post exposing your body and still have the guts to write oluwa is involved. Sorry you are only making yourself cheap. Responsible women don’t act that way.


Sex loves dark and lonely places. Wait, why are you always avoiding the public? You want to talk? Can’t you still be around people and stay out of ear shot? What are you talking about that we must not hear? Send a text message or write a letter. You don’t need to hide in darkness to express your heart, you may indirectly be asking for more than talk.


Why are you in a hurry to sleep under the same roof with a man? Why are you in a hurry? What is your problem? Some ladies can’t wait for a man to propose. They pack their bags and move to his house immediately. For what? And when that one gets tired of the sex, he sends them packing and we get to listen to all their tales of woe! Some don’t even expect their man to ask for sex. Really? A monkey has the higher chance of jumping at the sight of banana.


Some ladies think because they are exceptionally beautiful, men will always ask for sex so it’s not really their fault that they sleep around. That is a big lie from the pit of hell! You need to work on your mindset.

Thinking all men will die for you because you have a hot body is crap. Not all men lose their senses when they see a woman with seductive body. All irresponsible, immature, abusers and users do get attracted to her anyway. Mature, godly men don’t get their brain twisted on sporting that type of woman.

Watch what you wear, how you sit, where you go and the way you behave around men. A virtuous woman dresses well to cover her body and comports herself maturely around men. You will be addressed the way you dress. So If they are always asking you for sex, check what is wrong and fix it.

Conclusion: it’s never too late to start working on your image and mindset. Take a stand against objectifying your body and the society will be better for it.

Source: anonymous poster.


  1. This is disgusting, despicable advice. Let’s not expect those poor men to control themselves! That’s asking too much! If a woman is getting unwanted attention frommales it is always her own fault! She must have been wearing the wrong clothes or makeup if she was raped! Of course!

    Why don’t youjust tell us to wear a burkha and have done with it?


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