Anupama 11 November 2022: Baa tells Anu and Anuj that a person becomes annoymous if he/she doesn’t have a name and relationship becomes disgraceful if it doesn’t have a name, so they should give a name to their relationship to gain respect from the society and end all the problems. She asks Anuj if he truly loves Anu and when he openly can express his love in front of her family, he should fill sindhoor in her hairline and marry her. She then provokes children, Bapuji, and GK that they should be happy with this marriage and then starts humiliating Anu that she will be defamed and character assassinated if he doesn’t fill sindhoor in her hairline. Anu requests to stop. Baa continues provoking Anuj. Anuj picks sindhoor and applies tika on her forehead instead. Anu gets shocked but then relaxes seeing tika instead.
Anuj tells Baa that he doesn’t care about society and Baa’s thinking and only Anu’s wish matters to him. Baa says she can’t understand his high talks. He says its a one-sided love and only he loves Anu and she will never love him. She says people will humiliate their relationship. Anuj says he doesn’t care, he can apply sindhoor and make her a devi and not a biwi/wife; he further says she insulted herself and sindhoor by playing this cheap game; a relationship without love is never accepted and he will never disgrace Anu with this kind of relationship, etc.Anu confronts Baa and asks why she is still adamant, why can’t Anuj be her friend when Devika can be her friend. Baa shouts Anuj has feelings for her. She says Anuj and her relationship is a pure friendship without any sin, so she should spare them. Baa says she gave them a chance to shut everyone’s mouth, but they are lecturing her. Samar asks why is she interfering in mummy’s life when she already left Shah house. Baa says they are interfering her life and happiness, her house is dark because of them.
Mamaji says if she is pointing 1 finger at them, her 3 fingers are pointed towards herself. She warns him to shut his mouth or else she will slap him and continues humiliating them.Bapuji loses his calm and says he always considered a wife as a life partner and not a servant, he tolerated all her nonsense till now and now he can’t and orders her to get out of his daughter’s dance academy and his warehouse. Baa replies who is he to kick her out and reminds all the sacrifices she made for his house and got a humiliation in return. He says she got his silence in return’ her tongue is bitter, even then he didn’t say her anything; people used to laugh on him, he was silent seeing her sacrifice, but not today and asks her again to get out of here. She denies and continues humiliating Anu. He warns her not to take his daughter’s name. She asks what will he do then. Kavya thinks these oldies get short of breath walking a few steps, but have stamina to fight.
Anu tries to stop Baa and requests not exaggerate the issue. Baa continues humiliating Bapuji and says she he didn’t have money to hire a rickshaw after their marriage and she had to walk 5 miles to reach his house, his mother just gave blessings and father 1.25 rs, he gave her Ramayan and not even a single silver article. Bapuji says he was poor. She asks why did he marry then and continues that he couldn’t even give proper education to this children, her son had to start working from 14 to fund Dolly’s studies as his father was uncapable, she had to run the house in his 400 rs salary which cannot even buy a begging pot, her son got her daughter married or else her daughter would have been unmarried till now, etc. Anu says if she and her son have sacrificed a lot, even Bapuji poured his heart out and fulfilled all his responsibilities, etc. Baa warns her to shut up and not interfere between her and her husband. Mamaji tries to stop her next, but she shouts that he is incompetent saala/BIL of an incompetent jija and shuts his mouth.
GK suggests Leela/Baa that a mother has her house, a wife has her household, and a man has a pride of running the house, hence she shouldn’t snatch her husband’s pride or else he will shatter. He fulfilled his responsibility of proving them food, they get a dry roti with hard work and ghee-laced roti with faith, he worked hard and left rest on faith; he fulfilled all his responsibilities loyally, so she should stop humiliating her husband. Baa shouts being a bachelor how will he know what kind of husband Hasmukh//Bapuji is. GK says he knows what kind of a father Bapuji is seeing Dolly and Anupama and what kind of a father Baa is seeing Vanraj. Baa shouts she doesn’t talk to servants. Anuj warns her to stop humiliating GK. GK says when this woman is not in her senses and can insult her husband, why should they bother.Anu pleads Baa to vent out her anger on her and spare Bapuji. Anuj says same. Kinjal says children learn from elders and what if she similarly mistreats Toshu. Samar asks what if Kavya mistreats Mr Shah. Toshu asks Baa to stop as its getting too much.
Dolly confronts her next that she will not keep quiet if her Bapuji is insulted more. Baa says she is not her daughter anymore, so she should shut up. Sanjay speaks next, and she shuts even his mouth. Mamaji tries next, and she slaps him and warns that he is born to forget and not confront. She shouts at everyone to shut their mouths. Mamaji says people will spit on her, he will forget that he had an elder sister. Baa gets out of control and breaking things around shouts everything belongs to her. Kavya thinks good this oldie is breaking things before she could take over karkhana.Baa then orders Bapuji that there will be her role on her house from hereon and he will just nod yes on her order like a puppet without opposing her and her son’s decisions. She drags his hand and orders that he will not meet Anu from hereon. He frees his hand and says he will not return to that house, what will she do taking a living dead body home, there shouldn’t be a place for him at house if he is bad father and husband. He breaks down and says he gave her respect and love for years and didn’t realize that she values money more than love; he will stay on street, beg in temple, polish shoes, but will not stay at her house. He falls down crying. Anu and others rush to him and console him. Pita Se Hai Naam Tera.. song plays in the background.
Baa yells at him to stop his drama and return home. Anu warns him to dare not speak a word against Bapuji now or else she will cross her limits. She then consoles Bapuji that she is lucky to have a father and FIL like him, his daughter is still alive to care of him. Baa yells if she will become a son now. Anu says being a daughter is enough, if a son is pride and lineage, daughter is dignity and life, she will take Bapuji to her home. Bapuji agrees. Toshu asks Baa to stop Bapuji. Baa shouts let him go when he doesn’t value her, they all should go to hell. Anu with Anuj lifts Bapuji and says she made mistakes before and sin today, she will have house and karkhana and will be very wealthy from today, but will be most poor in the world. They all except Kavya and Toshu take Bapuji from there. Baa shouts get out. Anu takes Bapuji to her house. Anuj tells her that one who don’t have parents can understand parents’ value. Anu says she cannot see her Bapuji shatter and wants to get back his dignity, which he has right on; he gave her respect till now and she will get back his lost smile again.
Baa swinging on her swinger remembers Vanraj leaving house and shouts let everyone go away. Kavya remembers Vanraj’s warning that he will not spare whoever troubles Bapuji in her absence, so she has to calm down Baa and bring back Bapuji home before V returns. Anu makes Bapuji lie on bed and breaks down seeing his condition. She says Bapuji always says that a house needs both sunlight and shadow; if a mother is shadow, father is sunlight; her sunlight is shedding; Baa humiliated everyone; she would have killed her instead of humiliating Bapuji so badly.
Next: Anupama Saturday update
