Anupama 19 November 2022: Baa and Bapuji’s wedding anniversary celebration continues at Shah House. They all dance on Tumse Milke Dil Ka Ye Haal Kya Karen… song. Vanraj gets a call and he asks to deliver packet only to him. Anu notices him. Kavya speaks to him, but he ignores her. Anuj imagines dancing with Anu. He gets someone’s call and thinks why did he/she call after so many years, anyways its Anu’s important day and he shouldn’t spoil it. After sangeet, Bapuji feeds kheer to Baa and she shies. Mamaji jokes. Anu offers kheer to Vanraj. Vanraj offers his bowl to Anuj and asks Kinjal to bring another bowl for him. Anuj enjoys kheer. Vanraj says Anu prepares tasty kheer and asks how is his work going. Anuj says its good, Anu’s restaurant is his dream project. Vanraj says he will visit their restaurant for sure and will not create any drama. Anuj thanks him. Kavya gets jealous seeing that and thinks Vanraj changed suddenly, he is going away from her and near Anu back again.
Samar tells family he will prepare cold coffee for them all. Baa stops him and scolds Nandini to prepare it as men shouldn’t work in kitchen. Anu asks why can’t boys work in kitchen, there is no rule like that. Samar backs Anu and goes to prepare coffee. Nandin excitedly asks Baa and Bapuji if its their 50th wedding anniversary. Kavya asks why is she so excited. Nandini says protecting relationship for 50 years is a great achievement and asks them to give tips to her and Samar. GK says why relationships of their generation last long. Samar returns and says he cannot prepare coffee as mixer is not working. Kavya says they should buy a new one. Bapuji relationships of their generation worked long as they knew to refix things, so even a scooter used to work for 40 years. Kinjal says there is one more aspect to it, women were not independent and used to tolerate husband’s nonsense. Baa says they were taught same and even song used to be like Bhala hai bura hai jaisa bhi hai mera pati mera devta hai..
Anu says their lives used to end by understanding that husband is not a god but human.Toshu comments even wife is not a god but human, they glorify wife as Laxmi and devi; when husband is not god, even wife is not and if they are not compatible, they should divorce. Samar asks why should they think negative, compatibility in their hands; they have a 50-year-old arranged marriage, 25=year-old arranged marriage, a young love marriage, and a lovely young arranged marriage. Kinjal says for her, marriage is a buffet dinner where there is love, fights, arguments, etc., and it depends on them what they serve in their plate as there is love between fight somewhere and fight between love somewhere else. Vanraj looks at Kavya hearing that. Anuj adds relationships break into bits daily and they have to refix them daily; they usually take in their partner for granted, earlier they love their company and later they try to avoid them, love is walking along and they should make sure their partner keeps smiling and like they preserve their precious jewelry, they should preserve their relationships. Mamaji asks how does he know when he is till unmarried. GK says he has seen many marriages.
Toshu says these words are good to hear and not practical, he feels one should think 100 times before taking a marriage decision. Vanraj says if they didn’t at the first time, they should for the second time.Pakhi says seeing all the marriages around her, she doesn’t want to marry at all. Nandini asks why is she saying this. She says mummy papa had an arranged marriage for 26 years and were not compatible, papa and Kavya had love marriage and fight, Kinjal and Toshu had love marriage and even then fight. Toshu suggests Samar to think well before marrying. Vanraj says marriage is not wrong, but marrying a wrong person is wrong; when there is his and Anu’s example, there is also Baa and Bapuji’s example. Baa says they are together since 50 years. Kavya asks what kind of bonding is it, will Bapuji forgive Baa after what she did. Bapuji says he cannot overpower Baa’s one mistake over their 50 years of love, even he must have made mistakes and she should have forgiven him, hence even he should forgive her mistakes as long as she accepts it.
Anu says if they cannot adjust, they should move on, etc. GK says he didn’t marry, but suggests Anuj to marry; he brought many alliances, but Anuj has. Mamaji says even he wants to comment and forgets. Bapuji says marriage is a long journey where they get tired sometime and hence they should rest for sometime and keep on moving, they should keep their heart open and protect their trust.Anupama rushes to Shah house blabbering its good today is Sunday and week off or else it would have been difficult for children alone to handle wedding arrangements. She prays tulsi plant to keep rain away today. Kavya gets jealous seeing her and thinks of clearing her dues with Anupama. Anu and Dolly get Baa ready as a bride. Baa says sometime mother gets a daughter ready and sometime a daughter gets her mother ready, its a circle of life. They both say she is looking very beautiful. Vanraj gets Bapuji ready as a groom and says its good that Bapuji’s fate is not ill like him regarding marriage. Bapuji says one has to handle issues, even he should. Vanraj gets a message that his parcel has arrived. Baa gets emotional. Anu asks not to cry today and keep smiling. Bapuji enters wedding venue dancing on Sajanji Ghar Aaye.. song with a swag. Family joins and dances with him. Anu performs Baa and Bapuji’s aarti. GK asks Anuj if he is feeling jealous seeing Anu and Vanraj together. He says they are together for children and family and he doesn’t mind.
Baa and Bapuji exchange garlands and celebrate their golden jubilee wedding anniversary. Family wishes them to be together for another 50 years.Anuj gives them a gift and wishes them happy golden jubilee wedding anniversary. He says they should make this couple play a game. They agree. He gives them ropes and asks them to make a knot with 1 hand to evaluate their compatibility. They succeed. Everyone clap for them. Samar calls everyone for a group picture. Vanraj stands keeping his hand on Anu’s shoulder behind Baa and Bapuji. Kavya gets jealous and pulls her out. Vanraj gets angry and asks why is she misbehaving. Kavya says Anu misbehaved with her during Toshu’s wedding when she slapped and kicked her out of house, then Anu was a gharwali/insider and herself baharwali/insider, now she is gharwali and Anu baharwali. Kinjal says it was a different situation that time. Vanraj says she should talk later. Kavya insists to talk right now. Anu says they should speak in a room instead of spoiling Baa and Bapuji’s wedding anniversary or else she will show her old avatar again. Kavya says this is her house and she will take her to a room and drags Anu along, remembering Anu doing same. Family feels embarrassed with Kavya’s misbehavior. Anuj says he knows he shouldn’t comment, but kavya’s misbehavior with Anu is wrong.
Kavya takes Anu to her bedroom. Anu remembers Vanraj’s betrayal. Kavya says she must be having problem in this room. Anu says she has problem by coming here without a reason. Kavya asks then why she barges into her house and life without a reason. Baa tells Bapuji that situation was stabilizing with great difficulty, but Kavya started it again. Anu says she is here for Baa and Bapuji’s wedding anniversary. Kavya says why she is always here instead of working, she is a partner of a big company, even the she and her boyfriend are here all the time. Anu replies that they work and not act like her. Kavya shouts why she hijacked all her celebration ideas and took over every arrangements. Anu says that’s because Kavya couldn’t and incapable, she doesn’t like seeing her and Vanraj’s faces, but comes here for family’s sake. Kavya asks then she shouldn’t come. Anu says she will not if she takes cares of Baa, Bapuji, and children, but she is busy conning them. Kavya says its easy for her to say this as she had a house. Anu says she hadn’t grabbed a house by conning and betrayal like her. Kavya says she wanted security. Anu says she got security now, then why she is afraid of losing it; she is losing her family and even Vanraj with her heinous act. Kavya shouts there is nothing like that. Anu says there is. Kavya shouts you blo*dy embarrasser, just shut up.
Anu picks her phone and checking its meaning and says she could directly say a fool in Hindi instead of using hifi English words; asks if she is done with her argument and gives gyaan that to keep Mr Shah happy, she needs to keep his family happy or else she will be left alone. Kavya shouts she doesn’t need a family. Anu says she needs a family in happiness and sorrows and once she gets old, she needs a family; one needs 4 people to bury them when they are dead; she should stop her heinous acts or else will be left alone. Vanraj gets a courier. Anu continues that she is still young and can buy 4 more houses with her hard work as nobody is benefitted after stealing someone’s stuff, she change before its too late and remember her words or else will break down.